tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post4351696141973809985..comments2023-11-03T03:36:18.738-07:00Comments on News From the Holmestead: Blessed are the FriendsNews From the Holmesteadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04032344892542402517noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post-69256306787436441532009-04-10T14:54:00.000-07:002009-04-10T14:54:00.000-07:00But the spiders are just trying to help you with t...But the spiders are just trying to help you with the housework, by getting rid of any insects . . . I can see about the beer bottles, empty fly skeletons and the like, though ;-)<BR/><BR/>Maybe the spiders would listen if they could, but don't hear very well in the pitch range of the human voice—do you have a better way to communicate with them?<BR/><BR/>Regarding hysterectomies, I think you ought to ask how much they want to remove, simply because I know there <EM>used</EM> to be a tendency in this country to remove ovaries too even when it wasn't strictly necessary. (I'm not sure how it is now. Or in your country.) Regardless of whether you want to use words like "female castration" for it, you'll probably have an easier time afterwards if they can leave them in.<BR/><BR/>Personally I never trust campaigning health books, preferring instead to trust demonstrably unbiased research, but there you go.<BR/><BR/>Anyway good luck, where <EM>luck</EM> probably doesn't mean luck at all, but people doing their jobs well with an understanding of what you want.<BR/><BR/>PS my mother had a hysterectomy some years ago with non-typical results, but she's hardly a balanced clinical sample, consisting as she does of just one person.Tim Jhttp://timtfj.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post-89428778671912761512009-04-09T21:46:00.000-07:002009-04-09T21:46:00.000-07:00Dear Anonymous: Thank you for the book recommendat...Dear Anonymous: Thank you for the book recommendation. I looked it up on their Web site, and I'm a little concerned. Some of the claims seem a bit fantastical/radical. For one thing, they refer to it as "female castration." I certainly believe there are unnecessary hysterectomies performed, but what of those that are warranted?<BR/><BR/>In my case, (to get graphic) my uterus has prolapsed. I'm Stage 2. Stage 3 is when it falls out and flaps in the breeze. I've just begun research, but it appears my two options are hysterectomy or a pessary. Forget the pessary. I'm not going for that. Once the referral goes through and I see a specialist, I'll know more and can make an informed decision. And I always ask if there are less invasive alternatives.<BR/><BR/>I don't know if there are nonsurgical alternatives to a prolapse. I do know several friends and co-workers who've had the Big H and said it was the best thing they ever did. We shall see. Regardless, thank you for your concern and recommendation.News From the Holmesteadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04032344892542402517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post-26817407414048116462009-04-09T17:36:00.000-07:002009-04-09T17:36:00.000-07:00There's a new book you might want to read before y...There's a new book you might want to read before you consider proceeding with the hysterectomy. It's called The H Word, and it discusses why hysterectomy is recommended, the diagnostic studies that should be performed, alternatives, and strategies to help women cope with the lifelong aftereffects. You can search inside the book at Amazon, but there's a website for the book at hersfoundation DOT org, click on "book." Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post-66423654690098420432009-04-09T16:42:00.000-07:002009-04-09T16:42:00.000-07:00"if you're feeling evil you can suck a spider AND ..."if you're feeling evil you can suck a spider AND a fly into the Bugzooka and let the games begin. I am so evil."<BR/><BR/>OMG, I am laughing my head off! Yes, you truly are evil! I've already sucked one spider with the BugZooka. Now I'm going to look for a fly. (insert diabolical laughter)News From the Holmesteadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04032344892542402517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post-28614544348609387422009-04-09T16:40:00.000-07:002009-04-09T16:40:00.000-07:00Tim, I have this thing about spiders. They belong...Tim, I have this thing about spiders. They belong outside, not inside. I treat them with respect outside, and go out of my way to not disturb their webs. <BR/><BR/>But when they come inside and hang out in corners, tossing their empty beer bottles at me and having their scruffy bachelor friends over, that's another story. And when they hover over the bathroom sink waving their fists at me as I try to wash my face, I don't find that very endearing. <BR/><BR/>Every fall, I stand on my front porch and yell out loud, "Spiders, you stay outside now, hear? Stay outside, I leave you alone. Come inside, it's doomsday." <BR/><BR/>They never listen to me.News From the Holmesteadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04032344892542402517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post-5803123806824855672009-04-09T16:38:00.000-07:002009-04-09T16:38:00.000-07:00Aww, thank you for this sweet post. I wish I could...Aww, thank you for this sweet post. I wish I could do more. Although you scared me with the line "How does Susan figure into this?" I thought you were going to say "She's going to come over tonight and give my a hysterectomy! Whatta pal!" <BR/><BR/>Seriously - if you're feeling evil you can suck a spider AND a fly into the Bugzooka and let the games begin. I am so evil.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1849420237850501497.post-15140157948757995282009-04-09T16:32:00.000-07:002009-04-09T16:32:00.000-07:00Friends like that are a Very Good Thing in my opin...Friends like that are a Very Good Thing in my opinion. And I hope your healthcare system gets itself moving.<BR/><BR/>If Raid is a fly spray, I think some of them use poisons which are very specific to insects (hence harmless to humans)—it's possible that spiders, being arachnids rather than insects, are either immune or not so sensitive.<BR/><BR/>You don't go with the traditional saying then—<EM>If you wish to live and thrive, let the spider go alive</EM>—? (I'll leave it to you to decide whether that was the right way to punctuate it once I'd decided to put the saying in italics rather than quotes!)<BR/><BR/>I hope the insect-slurper is as much fun to use as it looks (maybe not fun for the insects, but one can't have everything)!Tim Jhttp://timtfj.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com